Sunday, August 25, 2013

~How to be happy? ~

Hi & Assalamualaikum...

One of the best things in life pursuits includes attaining HAPPINESS.  True, there’s too many articles, books, motivational programs, coaching (the list is endless) available within our reach that claims to be able to help you be HAPPY (or happier), but which one truly helps you reach it?

The truth is none of this will work, until you are completely ready to face the TRUTH. Your truth.

Many people go around looking for Happiness, at various places, jumping from one relationship to another, some even totally leaving behind what they have built, and sometimes that include the people who depended on them and love them. Some people become nastier, others cut ties with the rest of the world, some tried going through and studying different doctrines and religions, in the hope of finding this Happiness that is supposed to fill them in a way beyond description. And still, many claim that they’ll only be happy once they reach a certain lifestyle, acquire the right vehicle, attract the right life partner, having the right weight or being acknowledged for some work done to be truly HAPPY.

It’s truly really nothing so secretive about attaining Happiness. And here’s a few simple steps to achieve HAPPINESS at this very moment.
1. Be in the now.
Be here. Today. Right now. This very moment you are reading this article. Easier said than done. But, really, you can actually BE HAPPY NOW.
a. Take stock of what you have, both the tangibles and intangibles.
b. Give yourself credit for the things you have accomplished, for the hardships you’ve gone through, and for still standing up on your feet, today.
c. Believe that you have made a difference, you have done all you could, with what you knew then, and with what you had. Give yourself some credit!

2. Accept and believe that everything is happening for YOUR benefit.
Yes, everything DOES happen for a reason. You may label it ‘destiny’, ‘coincidence’ or other more befitting labels, but it really DOES happen for you.
And you may, at a point, want to question why you are not getting what you want… why things are working against you. The reality is, again, for YOUR BENEFIT, as the unknown is only for HIM to know. Should you find yourself in this situation, just go with the flow. Believe that HE will bring you out of it, and lead you to the sweetest outcomes. You will only come to understand the reason, when you are ready for the answer. When you are ready for the Truth.

3. Let go.
Let go of ideas, principles, memories, or concepts that you are holding on to, that no longer prove to benefit you. Those that limit you, those that are choking you. Otherwise, you are only putting yourself through agony, depression, misery, and anger. These will only strengthen the walls you have put up.
Let go of the idea of being in control. In the end, YOU are never the one in charge… so take it easy!
The only motivation you need now is to be strong… for YOU! Challenging situations are meant to let you discover what you are actually made of… Yes, you will be striped to your core, and it’s exactly the right time to ‘reprogram’ the beliefs, principles and ideas that serve no purpose, in order to mold you to be a better, more beautiful, stronger you.
Be strong enough to move forward for yourself. Be strong enough to stand up again. Be strong enough for your own sake. Be strong enough for those who look up to you! If these reasons do not seem to apply to you right now, just find some other excuses to be strong, if not stronger! Your real enemy right now is the old you, fighting to stay, keeping you with the old ways.
So, come to terms with yourself. With how your life has taken the turns and detours and the reroutes. Be proud of yourself.
Every breathing moment is a chance to improve. When you are ready, start again. Now this round, be ready for the twists and turns.
Grab every opportunity that comes your way.  You never know where that experience will take you.
Enjoy every waking moment. Why not?
BE HAPPY NOW… permit yourself this, today.

Friday, August 23, 2013


Hi & Assalamualaikum..

I always fall in love with songs that are related with my life story.. and this song 'Galau', it did.. The lyrics went straight to my heart and i only remember that one person when i heard this song.. enjoice.. :)

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

~Travelog: Vietnam (Part 4)~

Hi & Assalamualaikum...

Continue from Part 3, we visited the bee farm.. After visiting the bee farm, we went to another place by walking where we ate our lunch, served with local fruits and listening to the music (local Vietnamese people entertained us by live performance).. 

Here we are.. 

Diva in the house..hehe 

i left my footsteps here.. ;)

After lunch, we experienced a journey along a small tunnel by small boat heading to the coconut candy factory.. 

local fruit orchad.. 

Walking to the boat that were waiting for us.. :) 

Mak Su's Family..hehe..  excited + scared face.. haha 

us on the rocking boat..hehe.. 1st time..  

The scared face of my bro.. He was really scared.. hahahaha.. among all of us, i'm the most calm one.. even when our boat had a small hit with another boat in front of us.. hehe 

There were still people live in a place like this.. a small hut built with those leaf... pity them..they do work hard to earn money.. :) 

After had an experience of boating along small tunnel, we're heading to coconut candy factory.. 

a unique papaya.. it was different in Malaysia..

Here we are at the coconut candy factory..we had the chance to eat the fresh one from oven.. delicious.. :)

The caramelized machine.. 

The coconut extractor machine..

Fresh coconut candy.. before cut into pieces.. 

mamma mia.. ;)

looking at the packaging process.. :)

Tired me on the swing.. :P

After that, we went back to the port..on the way back, we were given a coconut for a drink while sight-seeing the Mekong River.. 

Mekong River..  quite cloudy.. 

Mama & bro enjoying their coconut.. so refreshing! 

Me! :)

our tourist guide kept saying that Atok & To'ki was a romantic couple.. always holding hand tightly.. the truth is my Atok was not really well already.. she need support while walking..hehe 

Bye Bye Mekong River.. see u again if we had the chance one day! :)

Then, we went shopping at the port..The price here were much much more cheaper than in Ben Thanh market... 1 bag in Ben Thanh market for souvenir cost about 7 dolar each.. here, we might get 3 bags with only 5 dolar.. even the shirts here were very cheap.. after shopping, we went back to Ho Chi Minh city.. everyone were tired and sleeping during on the way back to hotel.. After reached the hotel, we continue shopping again in Ben Thanh market from evening till night.. night, we're hanging around in hotel lobby while drinking coffee.. here, a must try item was their milk coffee.. so delicious & tasty.. it cost only 1 USD.. much more delicious than Starbuck coffee.. hehe..then, we got rest and packed our things as we had early flight the next day..

Oh yeahh.. this is my new friend from Vietnam.. Tung Nguyen.. He's 23 years old and from Hanoi.. He's the bell boy of Saigon Pink 2 Hotel working at night shift.. he's the most handsome guy i've found in Vietnam so far..hehe.. He was very kind, helpful and friendly.. He was recognized by most Malaysian.. Malaysian called him Tomok.. hihi.. so if any of you would like to book a hotel in Vietnam, you may asked me or Tomok.. :)

This pic on the last day. we got up early and went to the airport for departure.. and Syirah again going back to Malaysia unbathed..hahaha.. 

She fall asleep in the cab heading to airport..hehe..

Pic of Vietnam.. the last moment.. 

Total expenditure in Vietnam.. Few trolleys.. hehe

Pinky guy in da house.. hehe

The International airport of Vietnam.. The counter open very late.. and people need to queue very long.. for me, the system was not so systematic.. same goes to the immigration and security check before departure.. one experience gained here, i need to take off my shoes during security check and walked with barefoot.. because my shoes contain metal and it triggered the alarm.. people queue so long at the back..quite ashamed...huhu.. how come i passed the security check in Malaysia but not in Vietnam? quite strict maybe.. one advice, you need to be here at least 2 hours before your flight or you might missed your flight.. 

with le mama.. tudung senget benget di pagi hari..haha

picture time.. :)

boarding pass.. 

Bye-bye Vietnam.. see u again in future.. ;)

last pic of the blog owner.. :)

So, this is the end of my travelog.. hope it will benefits you  and gives a lot of information you need about Vietnam.. till next time we meet again in the another travelog.. :)

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